Just one of those days, I know it sounds so cliché but we all have at least one day out of the month or even every couple of months of needing that alone time.
When you need that alone time it doesn’t mean you feel some type of way towards someone, you just need to self reflect ; enjoy time alone. Sometimes I even place my phone on do not disturb so that I don’t have any distractions.
For me it’s the first Sunday of the month and I woke up with a plan for the day, things I need to do and first thing on the list is solo brunch. I have a favorite place that I go to and I had my mind-set on what I wanted to eat. My bubble burst when there was a 45 minute wait and an hour wait to order to-go. My mood slightly shifted.
I know some people who feel as though when you have days that you want to be alone, there must be something wrong, not the case for today. Being an introvert I embrace doing things solo and not relying on others to have a good day.
One of my favorite things to do is go out to eat and I also like to try new places to eat. If the food is good and the customer service is great, I’ll be back. Most times I order to go , but today I opted to sit and eat in. This time also gave me a chance to write, its been a few days because work has been busy the past week.
Also I tend to be random and last week and I don’t like waiting around for people, when I’m hungry its urgent. To avoid people making excuses or holding me up I am quick to do things alone. I can say my mother influenced my esteem and being comfortable and not needing someone to fulfill your happiness.
I just wanted to check in with you all and share with you my first Sunday of the Month activity. What are some activities you enjoy doing alone and do you inform people who a specific day is your alone time untouched ? Share below.