Dating in today’s society has become unbelievably complicated. Complicated on both ends, from the man, and the woman. Can you imagine a guy asking to take you out but the catch is you have to pay? Apparently guys want woman to pay for their own flights, and own meals when they go out on dates…pun intended.
Too often we settle just to say we have something or someone. We settle because it’s comfortable and convenient. Both men and women settle. When you settle you’re doing yourself a disservice.
Within the last week there has been numerous violent incidents around the world. In my hometown Pittsburgh there has been 10 homicides just last week alone. Black men not only have to worry about other men but law enforcement as well whom took an oath to protect and serve.
When it comes to finding the right one our first instinct is to look for what we are use to. We are used to what we like, we all have our “list” of what we like in someone, what we look for as far as physical features. We’re drawn toward what catches our eye. Up for debate, can you look past the physical features and be attracted to someone mentally and no physical attraction what so ever? This can go either way, you can be attracted to someone physically but when you get to know them they aren’t your cup of tea. They can be less than what you’re attracted to physically but their personality is superb.
The Introverted Single Friend isn’t an anti- relationship movement. I’ve been asked quite a few times if I will ever get into a relationship, or how long do I plan to be single. I give the blank stare before explaining. If you know me I get offended when people ask me certain questions and you know I’m anti-explanation.