It’s been awhile since we’ve had a good Misunderstood Monday topic. I need answers, I want to know what my fellas think about today’s topic. Is a guy considered a real one if he isn’t loyal, faithful and honest to the lady in his life? Or does being real only apply to certain things?
This isn’t to bash me in any way what so ever but I just need to know, where does it apply that you’re not considered a real one?
Fellas do you call out your bro if he isn’t treating a woman how she should be treated or does that have nothing to do with y’all friendship. Do you hold him accountable for his actions or do you feel as though you aren’t sh*t either so whom are you to call him out? I don’t like the stereotype types that birds of a feather flock together because I have seen plenty of fellas in a group whereas some dog women while others are wholesome gentlemen.
Let’s talk about some of the things I feel it means to be a real one:
- Take care of your responsibilities as a man
- Continuously working on yourself to be a better man
- Respect your mother and women in your family
- Solid , honest and loyal to your friends
- Honest , reliable, trustworthy to the woman whom you’re involved with
When a guy is loyal and solid to his friends but he treats women like bs , is he still considered a real one? This question I asked Instagram and the results were 100% Hell nah he is not a real one.
I feel as though there is a double standard here, meaning people believe if you’re loyal and solid to your friends how you treat women doesn’t determine your realness.
I get the motto ‘bros before hoes’, but this shouldn’t and doesn’t apply to a woman you’re exclusively dating or if you call her your girlfriend. You should treat her the same and even better than you do your bros of course.
Why is it so hard for a guy to be honest when he is involved with someone? Fellas have no problem keeping it 100 with the boys but got a whole story for the woman he’s involved with. Me personally I feel it’s easier to be honest than lie because you have to remember the initial lie you told. If you want to date other people and not be exclusive why is it so hard to communicate that with the woman?
It’s also a slap in the face and more hurtful to the woman if you two built a friendship first before even dating. Communication is key. It’s hurtful to her if you feel as though you can’t be honest with her or talk to her about anything.
Fellas comment below and share with me your insight.
Thanks for reading!