Within the last week there has been numerous violent incidents around the world. In my hometown Pittsburgh there has been 10 homicides just last week alone. Black men not only have to worry about other men but law enforcement as well whom took an oath to protect and serve.
When it comes to finding the right one our first instinct is to look for what we are use to. We are used to what we like, we all have our “list” of what we like in someone, what we look for as far as physical features. We’re drawn toward what catches our eye. Up for debate, can you look past the physical features and be attracted to someone mentally and no physical attraction what so ever? This can go either way, you can be attracted to someone physically but when you get to know them they aren’t your cup of tea. They can be less than what you’re attracted to physically but their personality is superb.
The Introverted Single Friend isn’t an anti- relationship movement. I’ve been asked quite a few times if I will ever get into a relationship, or how long do I plan to be single. I give the blank stare before explaining. If you know me I get offended when people ask me certain questions and you know I’m anti-explanation.
It’s been awhile since we’ve had a good Misunderstood Monday topic. I need answers, I want to know what my fellas think about today’s topic. Is a guy considered a real one if he isn’t loyal, faithful and honest to the lady in his life? Or does being real only apply to certain things?
Hope you all had a great weekend. I had the pleasure of catching up with close girlfriends this past Sunday and it was a great time. Our conversations you can imagine inspired me for the next few blog topics to say the least. The four of us grew up together and although we have gone our separate paths, when we get to get together it’s like we never missed a beat. For todays Misunderstood Monday, what caught my attention right away was when one of the ladies stated she believes for her when it comes to dating, she has the F.O.M.O= Fear Of Missing Out.