Just because you’re single doesn’t mean that no one wants you. It just means your love story is still being built.
Too often people assume if your single something maybe wrong with you. People also assume if your single then your best friend shouldn’t be taking advice from you because you don’t know what you’re talking about. Wrong to all of the above.
This post is for the ladies who find themselves being the single friend and tend to feel a way about that. Being single doesn’t define who you are and it most certainly doesn’t mean claim the first guy that comes your way.
Now you know I like to speak from experience and I’ll always speak the truth. I’ve been single for quite sometime now and for me I’ve never seen anything wrong with being single. When you have friends who are married or in serious relationships, of course there can be pros and con’s.
When you look at the pros you can see what you do and don’t want in a relationship. The con’s maybe that they invite you out and you maybe the third or fifth wheel and come on that’s awkward if they don’t know how to involve everyone around them.
Just because you’re single, doesn’t mean you have been your whole life or that you will remain single forever. When you give advice to your friends in a relationship, you’re speaking from experience and you want to see your friends happy.
Being single gives you that time and space to find out who you really are. What things you like, and what you don’t. It also gives you time to focus on you, accomplish your goals, making yourself happy. Too often people thing being in a relationship will make them happy. That should be an added bonus, it’s up to you to make yourself genuinely happy. Anything a man brings to the table should be an added bonus. Go on dates don’t knock the opportunity to meet new people and go into with no expectations, have fun.
Find fun things to do. You also have to understand that things you’ve once done with your close friends you may not be able to do anymore because they are in a relationship. For example party at the drop of a hat every weekend, or take random trips out-of-town. Not to say that they can’t do these things but you have to be mindful and considerate of their significant other. So you may have to get single friends or get closer to ones you haven’t seen in a while. There is also nothing wrong with doing things alone like traveling , going out to eat or going out for a drink.– I’m not saying become a loner.
Of course you’ll have your moments where you want that special someone to do things with and we all have those moments. But trust when you’re not looking that’s when you least expect to come across a good thing. Don’t focus on being single focus on being a better person.
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